Not being able to conceive and have a baby is perhaps the most traumatic experiences faced by couples. It is a problem that I am too familiar with. It took me and my wife about 6 years of trial and error before my wife conceived. In that period, I understood the deep pain faced by women who are having difficulty in conceiving.
You blame yourself, you blame God as you bear the silent ridicule of people. Your fellow women look at you as though they are better than you, just because they conceived immediately after marriage. In fact some very callous women even have the heart to call you barren right to your face.